Membebel - Derma

Alkisahnya, last week, masa aku beratur nak meng`cash deposit’kan duit, betul2 depan pintu masuk bank tu, ada sorang budak pompuan ni minta derma untuk rumah anak-anak yatim. Aku akuila, budak tu memang kuit tetambah ngan berbaju kurung dan tudung fesyen la ni. Then aku terdengarla 2 mamat kat belakang aku berborak, sth like this la :

Pandaikan dorang, guna budak tu, tarik perhatian orang.
Taktik sekarang ni
Kita sedekah pun jadi tak ikhlas, sebab budak tu.
Banyak yg tipu sekarang ni
Kalau betul2 nak sedekah, pegi je la rumah kebajikan.

Lebih kurang camtu la. Aku tak berapa ingat dorang punya exact words. Tapi aku try la untuk tidak menambahkan ayat2 untuk menyedapkan lagi citer nih.

Aku masa tu, dengar je la. Memang pun tak kenal dorang, tak berpaling belakang pun nak tengok hensem ke tak dorang tu ( ¯¯¯¯ )

Tapi kan, ntah apa2. Yang korang pi sedekah sebab dia tu lawa, pesal? Memang la lumrah, suatu yang lawa tu, jadi perhatian. but agak2 la. Dahla budak tu baru 13 – 15 thn. 15 tahun kot based on my assumption sebab dia tak pi sekolah, logically la since PMR dah abis. If mamats tu form 4 ataupun baru masuk matrik, bleh la aku terima that reason tapi ni office workers. Konpom 21++ since ni kat area aku keje dan masa break.

If aku la dan budak pompuan tu, budak lelaki yang hensem lagi good looking, xde la aku nak derma semata-mata budak lelaki tu kacak lg menawan X-D,
i.e キャ kyaaaaa!!! (ciplak aksi budak2 pompuan jipun..hihi)..hensemnya budak laki tu, jom kita derma...

ntah pe2 la manusia la ni. Aku still guna otak lagi instead of only eyes. Klau taknak derma tu, diam2 je la. Takde pun org nak marah or lecture hang if hang tak derma.

Lagi satu, macam la korang nak pi rumah kebajikan semata-mata nak derma sehinggit dua or even sepoloh hinggit. Ntah2 bila dorang wat camtu; "siapa yang nak derma, sila datang terus ke rumah kebajikan", korang complain tak cukup tanah lak,
i.e "Ishhh, buang masa dan minyak la nak pi rumah kebajikan tu. Wat la tabung kat masjid surau ke, kat shopping complex ke, tak pun datang je terus dari umah ke umah. Nak minta kita derma, dorang la yang kena datang kat kita, bukan kita yang kena datang kat dorang."

Tipu ke tak semua tu, itu hal dorang ngan Allah S.W.T . Derma ni, at least kita dah tunaikan tanggungjawab kita. Salary, rezeki yang kita dapat tu, kena la gak kongsi ngan orang lain, bukan je ngan family kita, walau sedikit pun. Kekadang…ermm…oftenla *grins* kita ni terguna masa kat ofis untuk bebenda lain, terlewat masuk after lunch, berlebih berborak ngan customers/clients, isap cancer sticks tu plus berborak tak hingat dunia, etc. So, dengan mendermala kita cover balik semua tu. Ni bukan my own opinons, ni dari member aku yang dikatakan oleh ustazah dia masa dia study dulu. Well....unlessla, korang ada ESP or kuasa psikik, dapat tau dorang tu tipu ke tak. Takpun, korang nih memang terrer bab observations and spies’ stuffs ^.^

If dorang tipu, tak berkat punya duit2 yang orang dermakan tu. One of these days, ada orang lain yang akan tipu dorang, malah lebih teruk lagi. What goes around comes around.
ﻬﺎ ﻭ

*If I can find time, i will translate this in english.... klau aku rajin la.. ho ho ho

For english translation, please to go http://hawaneechan.blogspot.com/2011/11/just-babbling-donations.html

Just babbling - Donations

Once upon a day (ۦ__`)y-~~ , when I queued to deposit some money via cash deposit machine, there was a girl asking for donations for orphanage right in front of the bank’s entrance.
I do admit that the girl’s truly cute especially wearing the baju kurung and fashionable tudung.
And then, I was kinda hearing (kinda??? It was more like eavesdropping く く く ku ku ku ) 2 guys behind me talking. It was sth like this:

They are so clever, use the girl to attract people’s attentions
Nowadays' tactics
Even our donations become insincere because of that girl
There are lots of scam/fraud nowadays
If we are really want to donate, just go to the charity house (and donate)


More or less, the talks were sth like that. I can’t really remember their exact words. But I’m trying not to add some spices to make this story become tastier ^_^

At the time, I was only eavesdropping. I didn’t know them and didn't even turn around to look and see whether they are tall, dark and handsome or not ( ¯¯¯¯ )


But then, what the heck! Why r u guys donated or thinking of donating just because she’s pretty? I know it's the normal thing that things that pretty and beautiful will attract attention but just don’t overdo it.
That girl is only 13,15 years old. If it is based on my assumption, I would say that she’s 15 since she didn’t go to school. Logically, since PMR already finished. If the guys behind me are still in form 4 or just entering matriculation, I do really can comprehend their reason/theory but they are office workers!
They must be 21++ since the bank is in my working area and it was on office break time. (Lolita??? hi hi hi) If it was my Sabahan friend, she would say:
“dengan budak2 pun bernafsu” ha ha ha …..i’m sooo not gonna translate it ^____*


If it was me and that girl is the handsome and good looking boy, still I won’t give donation just because he’s good looking and charming, i.e “キャ Kyaaaa!!! ( imagine yurself as a Japanese high school girl..hihi) that boy is so handsome! let’s go and donate”......
Really, what had happened to this world nowadays?? I’m still using my brains instead of eyes only. If you don’t want to donate, then just shut up. No one will bother or lecture you if you don’t want to. …like Simon said “just shut up and sing” :) ……


One more thing: Huh, like YOU would go to the orphanage/charity house just because you want to donate RM1 or 2 or even RM10!
But who knows, when they do that kind of method; “if anyone wants to donate, please donate it at the charity house”, you guys would complain like there is no tomorrow; i.e “Ishh… what a waste of time and fuel/money to go to that charity house. Why don’t they just put the donation box at the mosque or surau, or at shopping complexes or just come to the house by house. They want our donation, so they are the ones who are supposed to come to us, and not we to them”


Whether it is a scam or not, that’s their own matter with Allah S.W.T. When we donate, at least we already did our own part. The salary, the money we earned, we have to share it with other people, not just our families, even if it just a little, a few cents or pennies. Sometimes, even often X-P , we use our working hours to do things unrelated to the work i.e return late to office after lunch, talking with our customers/clients about things unrelated to work for quite a long time, smoking those cancer sticks and chatting.
These really aren't my own opinions, but was told by my ex-officemate which, being told by his ustadzah during his study years. Well, it is unless you guys got ESP or psychic powers and able to detect whether they are scam or not. Or you guys are truly excellent in observation skills and spies' stuffs .


If they do scammed, the money that they got won’t go anywhere. One of these days, there will be someone who will trick them, even worse than they did. What goes around comes around.

ﻬﺎ ﻭ - hawa - eve - ハワ



Baju kurung: malay womens' wear
Tudung: Muslim scarf
PMR: Pernilaian Menengah Rendah (Lower Secondary Assessment, taken by all Malaysian Form 3 students, 15 years old, form 3 almost = 3rd year of Japanese middle school)
Form 4 = 16 years old, almost = 1st year of Japanese high school
Sabahan: people of Sabah, East Malaysia (Borneo)
Surau: kind of like a small mosque
Ustadzah : female teacher/lecturer who teaches religion subject and is very pious